It’s safe to say
that this week’s class really made me question all of the relationships that I
have with my guy friends. Do they
actually like me? Would they hook up
with me if they were given a chance? Do
they know that we really are just friends?
I sure do hope so. I was really
intrigued by the video that was shown in class of the guy video taping the
responses of people at his school when he was asking them if they believed they
could simply be just friends with the opposite sex, so I went home and asked my
roommates and this is what they said:
Me: Do you think boys and girls can
just be friends?
Nicole: Yeah, I have plenty of guy
friends!
Me: So you don’t think that if you gave
them the chance that they would hook up with you?
Nicole: Oh yeah for sure they would but
that would never happen.
Me: So you can’t just be friends with
them?
Nicole: No I think some of them
consider me as just a friend.
Me: So some of them wouldn’t hook up
with you?
Nicole: No they wouldn’t. Well I hope they wouldn’t. I’m confused.
And
just like that, I turned Nicole’s whole day around too. Now she was questioning all of the
relationships she had with he guy friends.
Moral of the story is I think there is a strong miscommunication between
men and women. Women so quickly write
men off into the friend zone, and don’t always realize that the boys might not
feel the same way or want that to happen necessarily. So how are you supposed to know if any of
your guy friends are ACTUALLY you friend or if they are just waiting for you to
finally let him get in your pants.
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